Most of us have had that moment. Standing in a job, a room, a relationship , and something inside quietly says: this isn't it. Most of us ignore it. We stay comfortable and convince ourselves that comfortable is the same as okay. I did that too. For a long time. But before I tell you about the job, I need to tell you about the shower. "She handed me a towel and pointed outside. Not because the indoor shower was taken. Because of the color of my skin." I was young. My father